Pregnant and He Doesn't Want It!

So, you find out your pregnant. You've been with your mate for a time frame of 6 months to 3 years. He doesn't want the baby and your torn between wanting it and not wanting it. What do you do? In a situation like this a woman has to sit back, take a breath and analyze her situation. Face facts, how long you've been together doesn't matter, what other people will think doesn't matter. This is a decision that the two of you have to make a decision on. Your friends will be supportive and caring giving you a kind word whenever they feel it's needed, your family may or may not be receptive to a new baby and him well he's no help. Make a decision that's right for you. Over 25 percent of couples will face a situation like this every year and out of that 25 percent 10 percent will stay together. Does keeping a baby make you a responsible adult or does abortion seem to be the responsible way out. I tell everyone I come across that asks me for advice on many subjects the most important thing that I tell them is to listen to your heart. Believe it or not married couples sometimes face the same problems. While people can't grasp the concept of husbands consulting their wives on getting abortions it's been done.

Ladies put your lives into perspectives, think about your goals, your current situation and your finances and while you may have 1 or 2 children already, would another baby really complicate things. Think about whether you'll be able to deal with the physical, mental and emotional consequences that come along with terminating a pregnancy. Do your research find out how abortions can hurt you and help you. If your mate doesn't want to accept your decision then you've found out more things about him in a few days that may have taken you years to find out. Now I'm not saying that the man's opinion doesn't matter because that would be far from the truth but you have to look at all angles. You will be the one putting yourself in jeopardy and if you've already had 4 abortions from previous years and relationships then a 5th one may not be in great favor. In other words your gambling heavy with the odds of being able to have more children. Take his feelings into account but put your well being first, he could pick up today or tomorrow and leave you for any given reason whether you keep the baby or not. Then think about how you will feel if you would've kept the baby or gotten rid of it. 

Men you need to stop thinking with your juniors and start thinking with the big brains. If your going to sex a woman with no condom then you need to be prepared for whatever comes. It's not fair to you or that woman to whisper sweet nothings in her ear, suck on the spots that make her moist and uninhibited, lay her down and explore every inch of her cave and when the stick turns pink, blue, plus or says pregnant expect her to put her whole self on the line and get rid of it. Women and men use the brains and common sense that you were given and make a decision.