Many of you may be wondering what is an insufficient man or woman? This is not an official term that can be found through books but something that I have creatively came up with through observation and wit thinking that has apparently been getting much attention. (cheers to me) and it is now officially copywritten so if you want to use the term you have to go through me biters and stealers.
So what is an insufficient man or woman or male or female. Have you ever been to the bank hoping to withdraw money knowing that your funds are low but you haven't checked your balance because your secretly hoping that somehow magically or by faith that your account will have enough for you to withdraw the cash that you need? Then you get to the bank and you are highly disappointed that your ATM reads "insufficient funds" or your total balance is zero? If you have experienced this then you know the feeling of complete disappointment, let down and panic that comes into play.
This example can be applied to the insufficient man or woman. An insufficient sex builds you up, talks about all of the things that he or she has and can do for you and you are silently hoping that this is the one because they compliment you every way they can and they have the right financial balance. You find out sooner or later that this person bases their relationships on the way you dress and look and then try to compliment you with their fancy lifestyle thinking that's enough to keep you interested. Some people go with it for awhile and they soon discover that there is nothing more to that person aside from the flash, cars and money. Now you are highly disappointed and back to square one. The insufficient sex will or may offer you everything you've ever wanted financially and material wise and has no common sense vocabulary, can barey write correctly and can't offer you anything deep past their pockets. So if your looking for deep or stimulating conversation, great love making and other great qualities that make the perfect mate, this species is not for you.
I recently came across an insufficient male on a well known social networking site and had to write this post. I'm not going to name him for that would be just embarrassing for him but let's just call him Mr. Unlucky because he couldn't survive 3 text messages with me without putting his foot in his mouth and me figuring out and letting him know that we could never be a match. I've been writing and experiencing for a vey long time. Social networks for me are not a way of meeting someone because I am not looking and am quite happy with my life and the important people in it, they know who they are. I am there to meet new people hopefully gain some great friends and promote my writings whatever happens after that is up to life and the people I interract with. I can always spot someone that I will be great friends with or someone that I need to stay away from and believe me this Tiger had the wrong colored spots. After only sending me 3 text messages and 3 lines of saying the wrong thing I spotted the rat.
MISTAKE 1: He was already trying to give himself the title "daddy"
MISTAKE 2: He asked me for sexy pics of myself in high heel shoes and a sexy dress.
MISTAKE 3: He kept calling me sexy and baby but never by my name.
These 3 mistakes alone made me come to the conclusion that he was after something and definitely insufficient. Why did I come to this conclusion i'll tell you. First he didn't want to get to know me he didn't ask if I had kids, didn't want to know about me, or what my day even consisted of. Second you never ask someone for sexy pics if you guys aren't even dating and third his words alone stunk with arrogance. I quickly responded to him by lol ing ( to warn him that I mean no harm but was serious in what I was about to say" and then I tore into him like a panther does it's prey. I told him 1. I never call anyone daddy except for my father, I have 1 father and am not looking for another, (plus he hasn't done anything to earn that title) 2. We weren't dating and he never claimed me so sexy pics were in the air and 3. I don't wear heels unless it's a special occasion or I'm going somewhere that it's necessary. Then I made sure to add the topper "I don't think i'm your type. "
That alone is rejection and I know that I bruised his ego. Of course he had to try to be a hard hitter and ask me why I said that? I told him I'm a grown woman who has more to do than worry about prancing around in heels and a dress all day for anyone except myself. I gladly let him know that I was not a toy and that if I want to dress up for me or my man then that's why I would do it not just so he or anyone else could try to flaunt me in front of their friends to stroke their ego. I'm better than that. Well let me tell you the more I let him have it the more he showed just how insufficient he was. He started to ramble about how he was an engineer and how he had his own company and would soon be a millionaire and that he drives a bmw. I guess that was supposed to be the part where I apologized and acted like a good little girl so that I could benefit from his cash.
Instead I retaliated by telling him I'm happy that he's on a successful track but money doesn't make a man be a man. And if anything forbid his precious lifestyle get disrupted and he goes broke would he want a woman that loves him for him or one that would leave him because he could no longer support the lifestyle that he so graciously provided. He then wrote "I want someone that is a woman not someone that dresses like a kid and money does make a man". Now that was a low and unsuccessful blow. Because I then wrote to him that he didn't think that I dressed like a little kid in my pics on my profile in which I was wearing casual yet femine attire (which also told me that he couldn't take the heat, doesn't like strong women that speak their mind and that he was no match for me mentally) I also wrote that men who actually struggled and worked hard to get their money can appreciate a female like me and their finances those are men that know that money doesn't make them. Men make the money but the money doesn't make you. He then had a few short things to say, nothing bad but he was making a poor decision in phrasing his words because I could barely understand the sentences, had to read them 2 to 3 times and he misspelled simple words like the car dodge and the word "wear". I made my last comments by letting him know that my clothes, car or living space did not define me or anyone else as a woman and didn't detemine what I can bring to a relationship of any kind and that I hope he finds what he's looking for and to have a great day.
These are insufficient men and women. They talk a great game but have nothing else to bring to the table. If your looking for a real relationship these are not the type of people that you want to start one with unless you are just like them. Then you are a match made in heaven. Things to look out for with these people are:
1. Talking but not showing what they can do.
2. Bragging and flashing their financial stability but offering no other information about themselves.
3. Egotistical, arrogant and snooty
4. Benefits from having power or the upper hand and can't handle other people being in the same position.
5. No mental smarts
6. Shows more interest in how you dress and how you look physically
7. Asks for too much in a short period of time.
8. Likes to give themselves a title before they can even show what they can do for you or with you.
I hope you learned a lot by reading this. Until next time love life, live well and have fun.
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