Why Men and Women Cheat

So you are in a relationship and your mate has cheated, your hurt, disappointed and you may feel like you are the reason. There are certain things that you need to know about why your partner has cheated. When you ask the famous question "why?" after you've hit them, thrown things, flew into an angry rage or haven't taken their calls for weeks or days you may get answers like " It was only one time", " I didn't mean to do it", " I don't know what happened", " It just happened" or the best of them all " I was drunk" those answers may not feel like enough and they seem meaningless. Now you are faced with the decision of taking them back or leaving them alone. But here's the real scope on why men and women cheat.


First people need to realize that men and women think completely opposite one another. Men are simple creatures, they don't need much and they don't put nearly as much thought into things as women do. Women want and need so much that sometimes enough isn't enough. The problem is both sexes do have 1 exact thing in common and that's never being completely satisfied.


Men can't get enough of women and we just like them come in so many shapes, sizes and colors that they just want to grab a taste of what they can. Men may cheat because of an attraction to another woman that they may not be able to fight off, or have tried for so long to fight and they may not be able to do it any longer. Ladies, you have to understand that there are sneaky, scandalous, conniving and ruthless women out there who can't wait to get your man and they will do anything and everything to get them, sometimes the temptation can be too much and the male may give in. Another reason that men cheat is being unsatisfied, maybe not in a relationship way but in a sexual way. Men may only tell you once or twice that they are unhappy or unsatisfied when it comes to sex, some may not tell you at all. Because of this they may find or seek someone outside of the relationship for this reason in particular.


Women cheat mainly for 1 specific reason and that is unhappiness. You can always tell a woman that is truly in love with her mate and her relationship status just by looking at them or approaching them, A woman that is truly satisfied with her relationship will not give another man the time of day, they may say hi or flash a smile in your direction just to be nice, but try approaching her and rejection is what you will get. You will hear responses such as " I have a boyfriend" " Thank you but no thank you, I'm happy." A woman that is unhappy with her relationship may oblige another males advances. In most cases their unhappiness is not due to sex, but mainly intimacy, feeling alone, financial problems, not feeling appreciated or simply not getting the attention or care that they feel they deserve. Most women will tell you how they feel or start showing that they are unhappy, the problem is most men don't listen or take the subject lightly. Once a woman feels that she is not getting through to her mate the phase of a new search begins.


A new search is mainly due to the feeling of not wanting to be alone. A woman may stay in her current relationship but in the process she will be looking, or entertaining other suitors until she finds her match. The one that makes her smile and laugh all the time, the one that does everything he can to make her happy, and the one that listens to her feelings and what she has to say. Men, make no mistake there are hungry men out there who like the hungry women will do and say things that you don't to acquire the interest of your woman.


There is 1 thing that men and women don't realize. When a spouse cheats, especially a male and they make it a point to keep it secret this does mean that the person actually cares about you. Think about it if a person doesn't care about getting caught or they are just that unhappy with their relationship they won't care if they slip up and you find a detailed text message from another woman or male, they won't try to cover up the fact that they maybe going to dinner or going somewhere special without you. A person that cares and still wants to protect your feelings and your relationship will try to keep from getting caught. For women who do this this is a sign that they still have some sort of wish or hope that their relationship will change and that their mate will turn out to be the person they want them to be. But for those that are fed up, when their convinced that they have had it with the B.S. and they've found the one or someone better than you it's time to face facts that it's over.